Updated April 2026.
The purpose of this post is to help you find someone (beyond me) to marry you.
This is NOT a recommended list….I’ve NEVER seen ANY of these folks in action! (Kinda like always the bridesmaid, never the bride..:)
But I do know how they are different from each other. And that they can ALL legally marry you.
(And if you are an officiant and I have missed you, please get in touch and I will add you.)
And please remember, my comments are strictly my own opinion. Use the links to do your own research.
Door #1: Marriage Commissioners
I won’t go into a lot of detail about Marriage Commissioners, since most people are already familiar with them. In my 15+ years of leading weddings, I’ve found that they are either exactly what you want, or exactly what you don’t want.
Here’s the link on the government website.
Door #2: Wedding Officiants
When you think of ministers, you may think of the centuries old traditions of the Catholic, Hindu, Muslim, Jewish or other religions. But there are actually over 700 registered spiritual and religious groups certified to offer wedding ceremonies in the province of BC. Some do community outreach through Lay Chaplains or Youth Pastors. Some are retired folks. The range is wide, and each group runs on its own. So you can get a broad range of ceremonies. Here are some of the ones that I come across in my travels.
Spiritual/Religious Groups
These folks do ceremonies as an outreach/community service of their ministry or as one of a variety of services. If your budget is limited, they can be an alternative to a Marriage Commissioner.
The Unitarians. Well trained, inclusive and broad-minded, each congregation has 2 Lay Chaplains who offer ceremonial services. In Victoria, there are 2: Saanich and James Bay. Amanda Tarling is perhaps the most well-known Lay Chaplain…you can reach her directly here.
You can also find Unitarian Lay chaplains in Nanaimo and the Comox Valley.
Within the Metaphysical community, are a myriad of officiants who provide weddings as a menu item from a full range of services, and many don’t have websites.
Here are the local ones who do: Reverend Michael Ireland and Rev. Andria Winter in the South Island area.
In the Comox Valley, Rev. Sherry Ellis-Bell. and Rev. Shelley J. Grant. New in the Comox Valley is Rev. Thomas Trafford.
On the West Coast is Jen Boot from Soulful Unions.
Wedding Ceremony Companies
Most officiants are better at delivering ceremonies than marketing themselves…:) So a few businesses have jumped in to market wedding ceremonies.
You can see on their websites, most offer both basic and personalized ceremonies.
All Seasons from Ontario has 7 officiants in Victoria. I’ve found that Cecelia Penner (Victoria/Sooke/Metchosin) is quite responsive and very popular (and booked every Saturday in summer 2026 already.). The most affordable option of the 3 companies listed. And Nancy Arsenault in Comox can do a bilingual ceremony.
Young Hip and Married from Vancouver has 2 officiants in Victoria, 1 in Duncan and 1 in Nanaimo.
Vancouver Officiant, has a handful of officiants in Victoria, and one in Tofino/Ucluelet, and 2 who cover the lower Gulf Islands.
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Door #3: Celebrants
Celebrants are specifically trained in the art of ceremony. If you want something different or really personal, you will be in good hands with a celebrant. If you have a really good story that wants to be told, if you are blending faiths or cultures, we can do it (we’re Metaphysical Ministers, which includes a broadly spiritual focus). If your family situation is….complicated….we can help smooth out the wrinkles.
Some of us come with extras i.e. our own PA system, a musical accompanist as part of our service package. Some of us offer the “personalized” type of ceremony mentioned above. Others will create something completely unique and totally you. Pricing here cuts a pretty wide swath, because of these things, and because we each market individually. In many cases, you will get a higher level of service for the same or less as a wedding ceremony marketing company. Most of us provide a premium kind of experience that you can’t get elsewhere.
While the mantra “your ceremony your way” is part of the credo, it can really help to work with someone who shares your vibe.
On the south island:
Linda Nelson is popular with young couples.
Morgan Brooks offbeat. edgy. pagan, animism, LGBTQ. nature hikes.
Penny Allport. A deeper, more spiritual, profound experience.
Tracy Stoessiger spiritual, paganism. animism. nature. hike in and stand in the rain.
Katie Brennan has just moved from the Comox valley to Saltspring Island and is serving the Cowichan Valley, Victoria, and Gulf Islands.
Shannon Linden is a published author and a self-professed hopeless romantic who became a celebrant in 2022.
Central Island:
Jane Good has a more fluid style…real and organic. Travels to the West Coast and as far south as Duncan. Also with accompanist.
Ceri Peacey has a pretty great sense of humour, works in the Oceanside area (accepting ceremonies for June and later 2026).
James Latour is a stylin’ guy with some of the coolest jackets you’ll ever see. Locals love him! Works up and down the east side of Vancouver Island, and over to Port Alberni.
And in the Comox Valley, Jennifer Lee is a lovely storyteller and calming presence.
Deanna Belcarras just moved from New Brunswick so she will likely have openings.
And Linda McGaw just moved from Whistler, so will likely have openings as well.
If you’re looking for something outdoor, nature-based and real and aren’t into all the traditional wedding trappings, Rachel Cruse might be a great fit. Based out of the Cowichan Valley, travels the island.
Looking for someone who travels to the West Coast? That would be Jane Good or Lianne Fitzpatrick, below.
If you have chosen a popular date and are having trouble finding someone, perhaps check out these celebrants, who are either new in their practices or not as visible on social media/in search engines:
South Island: Elaine Stuart. . Laura Clegg is a former bride who is now on the celebrant path. laura [at] lauraclegg.com or call 250 380 2098
Cowichan Valley: Wendy Wawrysh Gail Peekeekoot, Cath Hamilton.
Tina Schoen is fairly new and has a number of personalized packages on her website.
Central Island/Oceanside: Shannon Rosnau, Karen Arends, Colleen Kendall. Or try Renate from Captivating Moments
Central Island/West Coast: Lianne Fitzpatrick, cell 250-203-1203, email: Fitz [at] Shaw.ca (no website yet)
Courtenay/Campbell River: Carol Elliot. Paula Bowman. And Joanne Timms.
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You’ll find reviews for many celebrants and officiants on Wedding Wire.
Door #4: Do it Yourself (sorta)
In some parts of the United States, you can get a friend or relative to marry you with a special one-day pass. It doesn’t happen here in Canada.
But if you’ve booked everything other than the one thing you need to get married (hey it happens), and now you are stuck, consider this option. Use one us legal folks to marry you ahead of time (when we are open), and then ask one of your people to deliver the ceremonial ceremony the day of.
Just a little heads-up that officiants have the chops to make it look easier than it is, the first ceremony you perform is utterly terrifying (so ask someone who is up to the challenge), and many of the ceremonies you can lift off the internet, frankly, are pretty beige…:) (which is perfectly ok if beige is your colour..:)
That said, I write ceremonies that can be delivered by someone with little/no experience and even let them shadow me at the legal ceremony before handing them my script. More on that here. I may be able to help you with that. Or ask your officiant of choice if s/he/they will do the same for you.
Feb 2024 note: I’m hearing that many officiants and MC’s won’t co-perform on a Saturday, because they are already busy. (Home-made ceremonies tend to take a lot of extra time.) And we must legally post the date we marry you on the legal paperwork, so just make sure you are ok with that.
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I hope you find your best fit! And if you have any questions or feedback, just post below!
Best,
Barbara
