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(What the &$#@ was I celebrating? However, unlike the divorce cakes I made back then, no one is face down in the icing!)

Seasoned professional. Super creative. Somewhat quirky

If I was traditional, I’d likely be saying here that I did ceremonies with my Barbies. But I’m not traditional, and I hated ceremonies in my younger years. Most were absolute snorefests. But if you wanted a party…especially something a bit off the wall… I was your gal. But then some big life events happened and my party planning prowess and ability to captivate an audience simply weren’t enough. I wanted something more…something bigger, deeper, brighter, that matched the magnitude of the moment, how I was feeling.

I’ve found, over the years I have been a ceremonialist, that more and more people are feeling the same way. In a life full of distractions, we often want to be present for these vista moments, but we don’t know how. And  it seems to me we are all longing for connection…to each other and to this marvellous life… and for a sense of meaning in this fast-paced world. And ceremony is supposed to give us that.  So that’s what I aim for.

Both in life and in the ceremonies I create, I’m miles (or kilometres)  away from where I started. Everything is just more real (or maybe I am just more real…:). But one thing that hasn’t changed is my ongoing gratitude to the folks who trust me with their pivotal moments.  I will do my very best for you. Always.

 

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Am I right for you?

I’m not a fit for everyone. How I work.

Your ceremony is the heart of whatever we are celebrating. And we’ll make it that. I put your story front and centre and let it shine.  I may perform your ceremony, but I do not perform. It’s all about you.

I’ll aim for something you and  your people remember for years to come.  Part of the reason why you will remember is because your ceremony will be really personal. I am kinda like the ceremony barista. I make every ceremony to fit…no cookie cutter stuff from this gal…and that’s (IMHO) why I get the reviews I get.

A guest at one wedding told the bride I was “part comedian, part yoga instructor and part spiritual guru or something.” An offbeat combination, but I seem to make it work.  To me, a really great ceremony has some belly laughs, some profound moments, maybe a few tears, and a deep sense of gratitude and belonging.

If the ceremony scares you a little because the traditional ones have you up on display in front of everyone, we can work around that. However, if you adore being the centre of attention (and your partner doesn’t), we can work with that too. If you are comfortable, you’ll be more able to soak in the love..:)

I aim for real and relaxed and perfectly imperfect, and for including everyone you love. If we have learned anything over the past few years, it’s to cherish the ones who matter most.

A seasoned facilitator, I have the skills and experience to read a room and to raise the energy within it. To hold space. To bring people into the moment and help them stay present.  It’s my invisible superpower… creating a totally different vibe. There’s this magic that happens when everyone’s energy holds hands for you.

Photographers and videographers seem to like working with me because I set them up for amazing shots. And give them the feels that many of them love to capture.

My words are Relaxed. Real. Remarkable. Remembered. What are yours?

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As well as being a ceremony specialist and a spiritual soul, I am a Modern Metaphysical Minister, who, like most of us in BC,  finds a more profound connection to spirit in nature than within four walls once a week.

If you are fully engaged in life, thoughtful, and yet spiritually searching, check out  The New Thought Community of Vancouver Island. CoVid put the damper on in persson sessions, but it made us super active in our facebook group.

 

“Barbara was the celebrant at our wedding and she was absolutely wonderful! She worked closely with us ahead of time to create a ceremony that was specific and relevant to us – one that reflected who we are individually, as a couple, and in our lives together. The result was a ceremony that felt natural, comfortable, welcoming to our guests and family, and full of love and laughs. Her skilled ability to combine logistics know-how with holding the energy of the space had us relaxed and well taken care of. We were in the best hands with her. We laughed, we cried, laughed some more, and left with hearts full!”    J+M (above), so fabulous, so intentional. Sighhhh….

 

Modern Metaphysical Minister, Celebrant and Wedding Officiant, Vancouver Island. Including Victoria, Duncan, Nanaimo, Parksville, Courtenay, Comox Valley, and Campbell River.
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Ashley McCrae
Ashley McCrae
2023-09-01
Barbara was hands-down a phenomenal officiant of our wedding!! Don’t be intimidated by the “homework” she gives you because she will turn your answers into the most beautiful, personal, and oh-so-special ceremony. We absolutely loved what she put together for us and we received so many compliments from guests (and our parents!) afterward that it was the BEST wedding ceremony they’ve EVER been to! She is one of the first things we mention when people ask about our wedding and we cannot thank her enough for helping to create such a memorable day!! Barbara deserves all the stars and then some, we could not recommend her enough!
Cody Walsh
Cody Walsh
2023-08-13
This lovely woman was exactly the low-stress and emotionally fluent genius needed to coordinate, manage, and finally officiate our incredibly special day. I truly cannot recommend higher ! Thank you so much Barbara for all you did to get to know us, our story, and our families. We love you!
Julie Levasseur
Julie Levasseur
2023-08-12
Barbara is so much more than an officiant. Her seasoned, thorough and thoughtful approach helped us create a ceremony experience that was equal parts personal and FUN! From our initial consult, to day-of, as well as following-up after our wedding, we can’t thank Barbara enough for her care and attention. She’s simply the best!
Sachin Khona (Creative)
Sachin Khona (Creative)
2023-08-04
I had the pleasure of working with Barbara at a wedding yesterday and she was an absolute delight to work with. We literally met 5 minutes before the ceremony and she ran the elopement so smoothly and beautifully, taking into consideration the stories of the couple and even included in some First Nations Rituals and Jewish traditions for Susan and Inka. As a photographer, hiring an officiant is such an important decision to make as they really create and bring the energy to a ceremony. You won't go wrong picking Barbara! 10/10 I look forward to documenting another wedding with you soon Barbara! Big hugs, Sachin
Anthony Price
Anthony Price
2023-08-03
JUST AMAZING! It's really hard to describe just how amazing Barbara is at what she does. She walked my now wife and I through ever step of the process. The creation of our ceremony, the vows and everything came together perfectly. Barbara is a master at making any special event so personal and unique to who you are. Thank-you so much Barbra!! Love Ant & Meg
Michelle R
Michelle R
2023-07-17
Barbara officiated our wedding at the Vow Cabin. The ceremony was everything I always dreamed of. Funny and heartwarming. Barbara is truly brilliant and so so good at what she does. The ceremony was so personal and unique to us. I felt so relaxed during the ceremony and I really appreciate that she reminded us to be present and really take in the moment. I really appreciate the care that Barbara put into writing our ceremony. Truly the best.
Athena Mills
Athena Mills
2023-07-13
Our wedding ceremony with Barbara was excellent. It was intimate and personal, but also light hearted and funny in a way that celebrated our love without taking away from the gravity of the commitment we were making to each-other. Barbara also included our friends and family in all the right moments to create some wonderful lasting memories. It was a really special day and Barbara played a huge role in it, I cannot recommend her enough!
stephen wynnyk
stephen wynnyk
2023-06-27
Barbara was a spectacular celebrant for our wedding. She works with you to create a wonderful, authentic ceremony. Barb had tons of unique quirks she suggested, which made our ceremony unique. She also had a sterling reputation with our vendors, so our ceremony was perfectly coordinated with our photographer (Tulle & Tweed Photography) and videographers (Paper Heart Films). Barb's words brought us and our guests to tears! You can feel her presence with every word. I cannot recommend her enough.
Cameron Freshwater
Cameron Freshwater
2023-06-10
Barbara is an amazingly thoughtful, patient and professional officiant. She made what could have been an extremely stressful situation an absolute breeze. She helped us design a ceremony that matched our personalities perfectly and truly made our day special.
amanda P
amanda P
2023-01-31
Barbara was a delight to work with. From the very beginning she was personable, easy to talk to and supportive. She turned our ideas into a magical wedding ceremony for us that exceeded our expectations. It was a whimsical night for us.
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