Wee Weddings (up to 20 people)

Rick Collins Photography

Wee weddings…or microweddings…whatever you want to call them….really took off thanks to Co-Vid, and it looks like they are here to stay. The really cool thing is that they can be almost anything you want..last minute…a surprise wedding…a weekend away…an adventure…or all of the above! You are not limited by venue sizes or availability. They can be a scaled-down version of a fancy wedding or a budget-friendly celebration. It’s totally up to you.

Candice Marie Photography

Meghan Hemstra Photography

What matters is that you are together with the people you love the most, celebrating the love you have for each other and the love among you. And the magical things that happen when everyone is right there with you and for you in a moment that will not pass by again.

The very kid friendly Tasha Cline Photography

It’s a totally different vibe, totally relaxed and real. You won’t feel like you are in a performance. And the intimacy offers a shared experience as the people who love you most help to marry you (lots of ways to do that…:) Can be kidlet and dog friendly (cats welcome too, but most prefer to stay home…:)

Click here for Wee Wedding inspiration.

Wee Wedding Vibes

Downscaled from 300 to just their families and one afternoon full of love. Awesome capture by Paper Heart Films

A+S . At the height of the pandemic, virtually no one could come, but they had the venue booked and a month honeymoon! So the awesome Breanne and Grady at Evergreen and Bound helped pull together a little surprise…we made videos. And then they captured it all for their loved ones around the world.

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Travelling to the Island to get married?

I am happy to offer suggestions of unique places or venues for a more intimate ceremony and service providers who love wee weddings as much as I do.

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Do you have kids? (even adult ones?) Are you marrying later or after loss? Have you been together for a while? Check out Weddings with History.

Are you a same-sex, trans or gender non-conforming couple? Check out LGBTQ weddings.

Contact me about your Wedding Ceremony

Modern Metaphysical Minister/Celebrant and Wedding Officiant, Vancouver Island. Including Victoria, Duncan, Nanaimo, Parksville, Courtenay, Comox Valley, and Campbell River.

Barbara Densmore Celebrant

Based on 71 Google reviews

Caitlin Barnes

2022-12-05

Barbara is so amazing to work with. She curates the most perfect re-telling of couple's love stories that have them laughing and crying - sometimes at the same time! Barbara has a presence that puts everyone at ease and immediately allows guests and couples to feel grounded to appreciate every moment. If you want a ceremony that tells your story and allows you to truly soak up every word - there is only one person :)

Jasmina Omri

2022-10-28

Barbara was excellent to work with. She helped us have a wonderful wedding ceremony by supporting both of us and by telling our love story so beautifully! Thank you again for making our day feel extra special! T&J

Jen C

2022-10-27

Barbara is amazing to work with! At first I didn't think much of the ceremony part, but having someone like Barbara put together a unique and personalized ceremony really makes the day even more special. So many of our guests said their favourite part of the wedding was the ceremony! So worth it.

Courtney Hutson

2022-10-21

There aren’t enough words to say how appreciative my husband (still so exciting to say!!) and I are for Barbara. Right from the moment we started working with her she was thorough, relaxed and made us feel so comfortable. She guides her couples, provides them with helpful tips and tools and made us feel incredibly supported. On the day of, she delivered a ceremony that felt like us. We are forever thankful for her and would recommend her to anyone looking for an officiant - especially for those who are less traditional and choose an adventurous elopement like we did! Thank you, thank you and thank you again Barbara!

Spence

2022-10-12

Having Barbara as our Wedding Officiant was absolutely incredible. She made us feel so comfortable with the process leading up to our special day, which made it easy and very straightforward. This reduced much stress couples experience preparing for their wedding. On our Wedding Day, the experience was magnificent. Barbara truly made our wedding day an amazing experience. Highly recommended - she'll make your wedding day incredible too.

Cherylann Nesbitt

2022-10-04

Barbara was AMAZING to work with. We couldn't be happier with the final outcome of our ceremony. Our guests were all very impressed. We kept hearing guests say how unique and special the ceremony was. And how it was a refreshing update from what they had seen at past weddings. Which was exactly what we had asked for when we first met Barbara! Barbara spent a good amount of time getting to know us and that allowed for a really personalized ceremony. She was organized and always one step ahead of us (which was super helpful with life being so busy). She was an excellent collaborator. She listened to what we wanted, and then gave us a few different options for each section. Shen helped with our vows and made sure we had everything we needed every step of the way. It was the perfect ceremony and we can't imagine having done it with any other officiant! -Cherylann & Luke

Jeramiah Morris

2022-10-03

Barbara was the celebrant at our wedding and she was absolutely wonderful! She worked closely with us ahead of time to create a ceremony that was specific and relevant to us - one that reflected who we are individually, as a couple, and in our lives together. The result was a ceremony that felt natural, comfortable, welcoming to our guests and family, and full of love and laughs. Her skilled ability to combine logistics know-how with holding the energy of the space had us relaxed and well taken care of. We were in the best hands with her. We laughed, we cried, laughed some more, and left with hearts full! Thank you Barbara!! Michael & Jeramiah

Heather Campbell

Barbara is a celebrant extraordinaire! Everything was perfect from start to finish, she truly brought our wedding ceremony alive and tailored made the most beautiful day for us. Throughout all the preparation and on the day she was encouraging, kind and supportive. Before the wedding we used Barbara's wonderful website and 'welcome package' to helps us layout our ceremony, choose our 'moments', and gleam inspiration for writing our own vows. It was truly a wonderful day and we're so happy to have had Barbara officiate over us.

Courtenay Lennox

2022-09-27

Barbara Married us and was so wonderful and helpful in what seemed a daunting process. Let me tell you she did all the hard work, had wonderful suggestions and I just cannot say enough about her service. She wrote us a sweet, funny and very memorable ceremony. My husband and I highly recommend her!! Thank you so much Barbara!

Celine Sauve

2022-09-26

Barbara was a dream to work with- I cannot say it enough! Prior to our wedding, she had me and my husband fill out a little questionnaire about each other and worked our secret responses into our ceremony. This was such a personal touch that brought many laughs and touching moments. We wanted sweet and simple and Barbara did that AND MORE. With little surprises along the way, I couldn't have asked for a better ceremony. Even our guests mentioned how wonderful and entertaining she was. A million thank-yous to Barbara!