So many details to plan… clothes, cake, venue, music—the list just keeps growing, doesn’t it? But let’s be honest; that’s not why everyone’s showing up. (Ok, maybe just a smidge!) They’re coming because they absolutely adore you, and they’re bringing all that love along with them.
And guess what? That kind of love doesn’t want to sit on its hands or be a mere witness; it’s ready to burst forth as joy, laughter, and maybe even a few happy tears. That’s a beautiful thing because your wedding ceremony sets the tone for everything that follows. (At least, that’s what the best photographers and videographers keep telling me.)
So, imagine a ceremony that feels less like a staged performance and more like a warm group hug, free from the pressure of perfection. Full of personality (yours)…where you can laugh and be your authentic selves…who you really are without the fancy clothes and makeup. Picture the genuine gratitude for everyone and everything that brought you to this epic moment…a moment that won’t come again. Visualize a powerful sense of belonging…and feel the love that fills the space between you and among you…the kind that nestles in your hearts and stays there for years to come.
That’s the magic I’m here to help you create.
And oh yes, we’ll also get you very very married.
Are You my People?
It’s more of a mindset, really. See if any of these feel like a fit…
You want to immerse yourself in the experience of getting married: to actively tie the knot in a way that feels just right for you. Parties are great, but this is bigger than that.
You may be incredibly grateful, having weathered some substantial storms. Or perhaps found love after loss. You know just how darn lucky you are to have found each other.
You’ve got a story that’s been unfolding for a while now. You’ve been together for years, maybe even started a family, or have a little less “tread on your tires.” You have much to appreciate.
You could be anyone who especially values the significance of getting married—think same-sex, trans, or gender non-conforming couples. Or you have found love after loss. You want to own this moment. Fully.
You are not walking to the altar alone…you want to include your kids…children or adult…2 legged or 4 legged. Some how. Some way. Even it it’s complicated.
You aren’t afraid to step off the traditional wedding treadmill. Honestly, you’re probably more scared of getting stuck on it.
You embrace words like genuine, authentic, heartfelt, real, laughter, and even quirky.
And I’m guessing that vanilla is probably not your favourite flavour…:)
Eloping?
Don’t let anyone convince you that just because you don’t have an audience, you need to pull off a “dine and dash” kind of wedding! Eloping is your chance to do whatever feels right for you. You can embrace the quirky things that only you two truly understand. It’s about actively marrying each other in a way that’s authentic and meaningful.
And just so you know, most of my vow renewals are totally private too.
What are my Fees?
Honestly, if the ceremony is just above the porta-potty on your priority list, I am soooo not right for you. The good news is that there are plenty of folks out there doing “personalized” ceremonies who will certainly do a very nice job for you.
Me, I’m more like a ceremony chef or barista, handcrafting something unique just for you. Super personal, super authentic. We can work months in advance to co-create an intentional way for you to marry each other, or do something more organic and spontaneous, or even something in-between. If we talk, we can figure out if we are a fit, how we want to work and I can often come up with an option or two.
Most of my clients say their ceremony was worth every penny…or loonie…or is it crypto now…??
Contact me about your wedding ceremony
Modern Metaphysical Minister/Celebrant and Wedding Officiant, Vancouver Island. Including Victoria, Duncan, Nanaimo, Parksville, Courtenay, Comox Valley, and Campbell River. Non-traditional ceremonies for weddings, elopements, vow renewals.